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Learn to love the people who are with you at present.
Forget the people in the past and thank them for hurting you,
which led you to love the people you have right now.

When you love someone, you’ll do crazy things you
can’t explain, you’ll deny the truth and believe in lies.
When you love someone, you sacrifice,give everything
you’ve got and don’t think twice.

You risk it all no matter what.

Everything in life is temporary because everything
changes. That is why it takes courage to love,
knowing it might end anytime…having faith will make it last.

Friends are not the one who laugh when you laugh
and cry when you cry. They are the ones who
make you laugh and stop you from crying.

Love is the feeling we fall in and out of, and every
time we fall off, we learn to hold on tighter…hoping
that next time, we may never have to let go.

They say when love knocks at your door, open it.
But do you know that sometimes love enters
through the back door and before you begin to
notice it, it’s on it’s way out.

Have you ever loved only to let it go?..

Have you ever hated someone and loved him so?..
Have you ever missed someone so bad it made you cry?..
Have you ever seen someone left alone without knowing why? ..

True: Lucky is the man who wins the first love of a
woman but luckier is the woman who wins the lastlove of a man.

Love is not the right word to say when you feel
guilty nor the right word to say when you like a
person but love really matters when we share our
thoughts, our minds, and our hearts…

Life has a way of changing things but not the joy
that friendship brings, for friendship is like the
shining moon, makes each night a brighter one.

Love is not for beauty or color of the skin, but for
a heart that is loyal within, for beauty fades and the
skin would grow old but a heart that is loyal will never turn cold.

If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your
heart, forgive them for they have helped you learn
about trust and the importance of being cautious to
whom you open your heart.

A love is easy to feel, so hard to explain; so easy
to get, so hard to let go; so easy to spell, so hard
to define…and yet everyone is still taking the risk.

That’s love !

We are all a little weird and life’s a little weird, and
when we find someone whose weirdness is
compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall
in love in mutual weirdness and call it LOVE!

Never be afraid to fall in love. It may hurt a lot,
it may give you aches and pain, but if you don’t
follow your heart; in the end you will cry even more
for not giving love a chance.

Don’t run ahead of God. Let Him direct your steps.
He has plans and He has His time. God’s clock is
never one minute early nor one minute late. It
always strikes right on time.

If someone loves you, love them back not only
because they love you, but also because they are
teaching you to love and opening your heart and
eyes to things you have never seen or felt without them.

The past is meant to be used as a tool for the
future. Bad experiences indeed make you bitter
but the lessons learned should make you better.

On letting go: it hurts to see someone you love
happy with somebody else; but wouldn’t it hurt you
more to see that person unhappy…with you?

When you find arms that will hold you at your
weakest, eyes that will see you at your ugliest,
lips that will kiss you in both instances, and a
heart that will love you at your worst, then you
have found true love.

Someday, someone might come into your life and
love you in a way you always wanted.

If your someday was yesterday.. LEARN
If your someday is tomorrow.. HOPE
If your someday is today.. CHERISH

………..Is it..right…. ????……..

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Seorang pria turun dari sebuah mobil mewah yang diparkir di depan kuburan umum. Pria itu berjalan menuju pos penjaga kuburan. Setelah memberi salam, pria yang ternyata adalah sopir itu berkata, “Pak, maukah Anda menemui wanita yang ada di mobil itu? Tolonglah Pak, karena para dokter mengatakan sebentar lagi beliau akan meninggal!”

Penjaga kuburan itu menganggukan kepalanya tanda setuju dan ia segera berjalan di belakang sopir itu.

Seorang wanita lemah dan berwajah sedih membuka pintu mobilnya dan berusaha tersenyum kepada penjaga kuburan itu sambil berkata, “Saya Ny. Steven. Saya yang selama ini mengirim uang setiap dua minggu sekali kepada Anda. Saya mengirim uang itu agar Anda dapat membeli seikat kembang dan menaruhnya di atas makam anak saya. Saya datang untuk berterima kasih atas kesediaan dan kebaikan hati Anda. Saya ingin memanfaatkan sisa hidup saya untuk berterima kasih kepada orang-orang yang
telah menolong saya.”

“O, jadi Nyonya yang selalu mengirim uang itu? Nyonya, sebelumnya saya minta maaf kepada Anda. Memang uang yang Nyonya kirimkan itu selalu saya belikan kembang, tetapi saya tidak pernah menaruh kembang itu di pusara anak Anda.” jawab pria itu.

“Apa, maaf?” tanya wanita itu denga gusar.

“Ya, Nyonya. Saya tidak menaruh kembang itu di sana karena menurut saya, orang mati tidak akan pernah melihat keindahan seikat kembang.

Karena itu setiap kembang yang saya beli, saya berikan kepada mereka yang ada di rumah sakit, orang miskin yang saya jumpai, atau mereka yang sedang bersedih. Orang-orang yang demikian masih hidup, sehingga mereka dapat menikmati keindahan dan keharuman kembang-kembang itu, Nyonya,” jawab pria itu.

Wanita itu terdiam, kemudian ia mengisyaratkan agar sopirnya segera pergi.

Tiga bulan kemudian, seorang wanita cantik turun dari mobilnya dan berjalan dengan anggun ke arah pos penjaga kuburan.

“Selamat pagi. Apakah Anda masih ingat saya? Saya Ny. Steven. Saya datang untuk berterima kasih atas nasihat yang Anda berikan beberapa bulan yang lalu. Anda benar bahwa memperhatikan dan membahagiakan mereka yang masih hidup jauh lebih berguna daripada meratapi mereka yang sudah meninggal..

Ketika saya secara langsung mengantarkan kembang-kembang itu ke rumah sakit atau panti jompo, kembang-kembang itu tidak hanya membuat mereka bahagia, tetapi saya juga turut bahagia.

Sampai saati ini para dokter tidak tahu mengapa saya bisa sembuh, tetapi saya benar-benar yakin bahwa sukacita dan pengharapan adalah obat yang memulihkan saya!”

Jangan pernah mengasihani diri sendiri, karena mengasihani diri sendiri akan membuat kita terperangkap di kubangan kesedihan. Ada prinsip yang mungkin kita tahu, tetapi sering kita lupakan, yaitu dengan menolong orang lain sesungguhnya kita menolong diri sendiri.

Amsal 17 : 22 Hati yang gembira adalah obat yang manjur, tetapi semangat yang patah mengeringkan tulang.

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